Teaching Kids About Money with Video Games
This post is inspired by a discussion I had with Melissa Blevins about financial literacy. I appreciate her lending me her platform to help you use stories and analogies to improve your own financial lives as well as your children’s. Teaching children to have a healthy relationship with money is imperative, however many of the available tools come up short, reaching children often requires some out-of-the-box methods.
Sometimes people in the personal finance space question my use of geek culture to teach financial lessons. When I have offered to do guests posts on other people’s blogs tying back some financial topic to the latest TV show, video game, or comic book I often get some resistance. Allow me to explain why I use stories and analogies to teach lessons and why as a parent you should be doing the same.
When it comes to personal behavior, we are resistant to change, whether is with finances, fitness, productivity. Any improvement in behavior immediately presupposes the old behavior was “wrong” and people (myself included) do not like to be “wrong.” The knee-jerk reaction to anyone suggesting we are wrong is to become defensive, maybe make excuses or justification of the behavior. Some people go as so far as to become depressed or desponded over a worsening behavior, creating a vicious self-fulling cycle.
Stories, through the use of analogies, metaphors, or just a healthy geeky discussion have an excellent way of bypassing our defenses. It’s much easier to see the faults in some fictional character or situation than our own. However, we can see ourselves in these situations and learn from them neither the less. Analogies are certainly not a new teaching aid, they have been around since Biblical times. Fables have been used for centuries to pass on knowledge, and even today stories and games are used to educate young children.
I think at one point; everyone collectively decides money is such a serious topic that we can’t have a bit of fun with financial literacy. Well, the masses are not in great financial shape, despite all the financial information available online or otherwise. So it’s clear we need to change how information is presented and taught.
Financial Literacy for Kids
You can’t teach what you can’t demonstrate, and as parents, if you do not have a healthy relationship with money the best tools in the world will not out teach a bad example. Reading blogs like this blog is a great start, and Melissa has some great resources to help you improve your finances.
As parents, I think that there are two critical topics to teach kids about money.
- The difference between a want and a need
- Its ok want something as long as you’re willing to do the work to earn it.
I see parents routinely teaching their children the difference between a need and a want. This is a tremendous financial lesson to learn; however, it’s crucial not overly to rely on frugality and delayed satisfaction. Imagine if you were trying to teach a child about healthy eating. Would you solely focus on calorie restriction? Or would you choose to focus on a balanced diet coupled with activity and, yes, even occasional rewards, like the occasional cookie as a treat? What approach do you think would develop the healthiest relationship with food? Raising healthy kids is about teaching them the balance between delayed gratification and working hard for a goal.
Hopefully, you choose the latter, as research suggests, diets based on a combination of increased activity and healthy balanced eating are more successful than dieting alone.
So, when we are trying to help our kids have a healthy relationship with money, we want to utilize a similar approach. Giving children the opportunity to earn something they want is the financial version of the exercise.
Tip: When taking your children shopping, don’t tell them you can’t afford something. It’s crucial you come from abundance. Instead, point out that it’s not in the current budget, as you are prioritizing other things that are of greater value to the family. Let your children know, they can make money, save, and budget for these wants if these choose.
Using Video Games to Teach Kids About Money
If you grew up playing Atari and have not played video games since you had a regular Nintendo in grade school, you must be wondering what any of this has to do with finances. Well, video games have evolved since the 8-bit era of jumping over pipes or rescuing Princess Peach. Today, games are massive multi-faceted worlds that are a microcosm of modern society. Most even have in-game economies.
Many Modern games allow players to complete tasks to earn in-game currency to purchase upgrades, enhancements, or skins. Some video games, go so far as allow you to set up markets earn in-game loot, or even craft items to sell to in-game merchants. The game Skyrim, for example, affords players the opportunity to collect ore and gems and turn the raw materials into jewelry that can be sold to in-game merchants. Your child’s very first business venture could end up being an in-game virtual one. Use this as a teaching moment, discuss with them that what they are doing when turning the ore into profit is “adding value” and explain how that’s done in real life.
Caution: some games may be to mature for your child, it’s important that you understand what games your child can handle. Observe, them playing the games and if you see them engaging in any questionable behaver be prepared to intervene. Keep in mind most modern games have a social element, and your children may be speaking with people online.
A discussion about the best video games to teach kids about money is beyond the scope of this article. Although it would be fun to do, I couldn’t recommend a game because I do not know you or your family. A game that one family may find mild could offend another family. Additionally, children mature at different paces. As an example, my youngest can handle some more advanced games, because he grew up watching his big sister playing games and she always is willing to lend a hand when he gets stuck.
Tip: If you’re looking milder games or in particular games for younger children, Nintendo tends to cater to the casual and family crowd. Nintendo prides its self on maintaining a safe and family-friendly standard.
Caution: Some companies such as EA attempt to monetize games by selling randomized, that are effectively barely legalized gambling.
Even a relatively simple game like Candy Crush can be used to impart financial wisdom. Mobile freemium games usually sell extras to speed up playing the game. This is a great opportunity to teach your children about work and money. If your children want to buy a five dollar pack of “lives” give them the opportunity to earn money, doing work that’s over and above any choirs that are expected of them. Set a timer and record how much time it took them to “earn” the money, and how long it took them to spend it.
Then sit down and discuss with them. Was the effort worth it? Would that have saved up and bought something real instead of the in-game currency? Did the work take more time then what it takes for the lives to refresh in the game?It is not really about the video game, it's about communicating with your children and using something they are passionate about to connect with them.Click To Tweet It might be a bit cheeseball and geeky, however down the road they will look back and remember when you used Fortnite to teach them about money.
Do you have any tricks to teach children about money? leave them in the comments below.
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